So, this morning, I came across this powerful piece via an Instagram account of a young lady that inspires me quite a bit in the manner that she values her Self.
Responsibility to yourself means that you don’t fall for shallow and easy solutions–predigested books and ideas…marrying early as an escape from real decisions, getting pregnant as an evasion of already existing problems.
It means that you refuse to sell your talents and aspirations short – and this, in turn, means resisting the forces in society which say that women should be nice, play safe, have low professional expectations, drown in love and forget about work, live through others, and stay in the places assigned to us.
It means that we insist on a life of meaningful work; insist that work be as meaningful as love and friendship in our lives. It means, therefore, the courage to be “different”.
The difference between a life lived actively, and a life of passive drifting and dispersal of energies, is an immense difference. Once we begin to feel committed to our lives, responsible to ourselves, we can never again be satisfied with the old, passive way.
Wishing you all the best on your journey to the ultimate thing: self-actualisation.
It is a struggle for me, but a struggle I know that I must confront and conquer. Loving somebody else should never be at the expense of your self. Many great artists and philosophers have communicated this through a variety of formats… and yet, we tend to fall short.